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Who Wrote To Me?

The rules

This is a place for unsent words, not for finding people. These rules keep it that way.

  1. First names only

    Never a surname, a title, or a nickname that gives someone away.

  2. No contact details

    No phone numbers, emails, links, social media handles, addresses, or school class and section.

  3. Nothing that hurts

    No threats, harassment, sexual content or hate, and nothing written to expose or shame someone.

  4. Adults only

    You must be 18 or older to write a letter or a reply.

  5. A person reads everything

    Every letter and every reply is read before anyone else sees it. Some never appear.

  6. If it's about you, it comes down

    Under every letter there's a link: "This is about me — remove it". No questions asked.

  7. Don't go looking

    If you think you know who wrote something, let it be. This site will never help anyone find a writer.

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